Friendship Quiz: What Type of Friend Are You?

Instructions: Answer the following questions honestly to find out what type of friend you are. Each answer will give you insight into your strengths and weaknesses in friendships. At the end of the quiz, tally your answers to see which type of friend you most align with.

1. How do you react when your friend shares good news about their success?

• A) I genuinely celebrate with them and ask how we can celebrate together.
• B) I feel happy for them but may sometimes compare my own progress.
• C) I congratulate them but quickly change the subject.
• D) I feel jealous but try to hide it.

2. When your friend is going through a tough time, how do you support them?

• A) I drop everything to be there for them, even if it’s just to listen.
• B) I offer advice and suggest solutions to their problems.
• C) I send a supportive message but keep my distance until they ask for more help.
• D) I feel uncomfortable and tend to avoid heavy emotional conversations.

3. How often do you reach out to check on your friends, even when nothing is wrong?

• A) Regularly – I like to keep in touch and know what’s happening in their lives.
• B) Occasionally – I check in when I think of it or see something that reminds me of them.
• C) Rarely – I’m usually waiting for them to reach out to me first.
• D) Hardly ever – I get so caught up in my own life that I forget to check in.

4. If a friend does something that hurts your feelings, how do you handle it?

• A) I address it directly and have a heart-to-heart conversation.
• B) I try to see things from their perspective and let it go.
• C) I keep my feelings to myself but become more distant.
• D) I hold a grudge and wait for them to apologize first.

5. How do you feel about your friend’s success compared to your own?

• A) Inspired – I’m motivated by their achievements and want to celebrate with them.
• B) A little envious, but I use it as motivation to work harder.
• C) Indifferent – Their success doesn’t really affect how I feel about myself.
• D) Threatened – I feel like their success highlights my failures.

6. What role do you usually play in your friend group?

• A) The supportive one – I’m always there for everyone.
• B) The motivator – I push my friends to achieve their goals.
• C) The listener – I’m there to hear what others have to say.
• D) The independent one – I prefer to do my own thing most of the time.

7. How do you handle your friends’ mistakes or bad choices?

• A) With compassion – I offer support and advice if asked.
• B) With honesty – I point out their mistake and help them see a better way.
• C) With caution – I listen but keep my distance to avoid getting involved.
• D) With frustration – I get annoyed and may withdraw from the friendship.

8. How would your friends describe you?

• A) Loyal and dependable
• B) Honest and straightforward
• C) Caring but reserved
• D) Independent and private

Results: What Type of Friend Are You?

Mostly A’s – I AM The Loyal Rock
You are the friend who everyone knows they can count on. Your strength lies in your loyalty and dependability. You are always there for your friends, offering support through thick and thin. However, make sure to take care of yourself, too. Your friends may sometimes take your loyalty for granted, so set healthy boundaries when needed.

Mostly B’s – I AM The Motivator
You are a driving force in your friendships, always pushing your friends to be their best. Your strength is your ability to inspire and uplift those around you. However, be mindful not to come across as overly critical. Remember, sometimes your friends just need you to listen and not always offer advice.

Mostly C’s – I AM The Listener
You are a good listener, offering a safe space for your friends to share their thoughts and feelings. Your strength is in your ability to empathize without judgment. However, you may sometimes come off as distant or uninterested. Try to open up more and let your friends see the real you.

Mostly D’s – I AM The Independent Friend
You value your space and independence, which is important in a friendship. Your strength is your self-reliance, and you encourage your friends to be independent as well. However, this can sometimes make you appear detached or uninterested. Try to show more emotional availability and make an effort to connect on a deeper level.

Final Thoughts:

Friendships, like those seen in “The Supremes at Earl’s All-You-Can-Eat,” are built on mutual respect, support, and understanding. At She ROCKS It, we encourage you to embrace your strengths and work on your weaknesses to build stronger, more resilient friendships. Whether you’re the loyal rock, the motivator, the listener, or the independent friend, there’s always room to grow and improve. Remember, true friendship is about showing up, being present, and offering unconditional support. Let’s continue to build a community where every woman feels supported, empowered, and understood. That’s My Soul Point of View. J.Dawkins